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How Dating with Confidence Makes all the Difference

admin | June 1, 2011 in General,Shy Tips | Comments (0)

Confidence can be incredibly sexy. Without confidence, your date may not go as well. Men and women both want a partner who is sure of themselves. Here are a few ways to boost your confidence level without crossing the line.
Confidence vs. Arrogance
Yes, confidence is a must for the dating world. However, if you don’t monitor yourself you may easily slip in to the world of arrogance. Sometimes the line can be very fine as well. Being self assured is one thing. Bragging is another. Don’t order for your date, don’t bring up all the money you have in your bank account, and don’t make assumptions. Telling your date that you love your job and explaining it is acceptable. It’s also important not to hog the spotlight. Give your date an opportunity to talk about them as well.
Don’t Fidget
You can say all the right things but still come across as being a jellyfish if you are squirmy or fidgeting. Watch your mannerisms. Avoid playing with your hair, your glasses, your watch, or anything else in front of you. If you start to feel nervous, focus on something that doesn’t require you to play with it.
For women there is going to be a line between confidence and sleazy when it comes to their clothing. You can display confidence with a sexy outfit; however, if you take it too far you just look cheap and slutty. You can show a little cleavage, but remember to leave something to the imagination. Don’t wear skirts that are very short, or heels that look like they belong in the strip club.